When onus is on the victim/survivor to prove

Girl, accepted all, believed all, watched all that drama myself but question is how you will prove? Indian police does not help victims. Indian courts need proofs. And you have too little at that front. How will you prove your phone was on wiretap at least since early 2012 and this sick person not just listened all your calls, read all your online stuff but even discussed all that and shared with his friends and circle? How you will prove that whatever he wrote on FB was just to hit you with all added mirch masala and turns and twists? Might be little bit is there with you in the form of subtle hints in all those screenshots and people can get clues well about all that. People can get well, what the heck these people did with you. You max can just expose but how you will prove that in court especially when police and system is hell bent to help these culprits? When people who watched this drama are shamelessly cowards to the extent that they are not just behaving like ignorant but somewhere even supporting these culprits! 

And he watched you even in your home and even dared to write all that publicly, you feel you can prove that? People will laugh at you that you have gone psychic. Police have already said, did not find any bug in your office, home or car. People here do not know about any hitech surveillance and it is too difficult to prove all that. Then why the hell you cannot understand things and keep shut? Why you stubborn wanna make your life more hell?  

Pathetic situation indeed! When you know that you gonna prove, then let people, surrounding or well wishers say whatever. When you know that on the name of proofs so lil is there with you but.. Yes! But! When hope is there, a zeal to fight till end is there; EVERYTHING IS THERE! Crazy indeed.. 

(Saal.. ne wink bhi mera churaya hua hai, now how to prove that? 

  

Duniya itti passimist kyun hai? Electronic trails, good people and expertise help sab mar gaya kya?? Sometimes for a win lil-bit is enough! Aur jiska naam hi itta soch samajh ke rakha gaya ho, wo haar bhi kaise sakta hai?

Comments zone is open on this blog. I need help in this case whoever can then be it media, experts, or suggestions.

Sunshine Smiley Vs. Rowdies!

Road rage belongs to average frustrated person. Most of the times, it's used against unknown and law abiding citizens. It's used to provoke people to get heated exchange, to throw out the frustration by rowdies. Do not be part of it. Either ignore such people or better give them your sunshine smile.

Rowdies may be on road or online/internet. People learned how to use internet or drive but do not know how to drive or use internet decently. Some countries have laws against such behaviour. 

I wonder, where India stands? Such behaviour is most common among students. Really? It's so easy naa to give lecture to kids. What if some teachers behave like those kids? 

Language, Use and Misuse, Views and Abuse, Taught a Lot!

Off late got lots of gyan from well wishers as well as from the practice of self analysis of day by day drama. Among those well wishers found many sensitive and caring souls feeling hurt while watching and listening day by day drama. Found some hurling back abuses at the abusers and cursing even their families. During this whole drama, thin skin became a bit thick. Analyzing power started a bit overworking, tiny particles of fear (was there any?) became a bit more fearless. The adventurer in me became a bit more adventures. "Be Yourself" became a bit more strong. Found family, friends, relatives a bit more dear as well as near. Wings became a bit more strong. Found more reasons to roam around the world rather than be a chipku at one place. 

Some Lessons:

The more you will react on rowdies, the more their macho man and abuser in them will vibrate to do more such rowdy dance. 

Language just like any other thing can be used or misused. It can be used to express ourselves and pass on our views beautifully. It can also be misused to abuse directly like a layman or worst, in complex shrewd's language.  

Destiny is not a Matter of Chance BUT Choice..

I am not much of a destiny believer though at times, I do say, it had to happen this way. Most of the times, it's we who chose it, the way it is. Happenings or mishappenings can happen without much of our control. It matters, what we do with those happenings or mis-happenings and how we deal with them. 

Euro plans, 2014! Hmm I missed that chance willingly for something people said "do not be crazy". Did I know then better days are ahead or something not so better is waiting me? No! But I knew I had to pass through a tunnel to see the light at the end of it. I am preparing myself for that. Hmm tunnel or light? I am already in that tunnel and light is not far away. Ise kahte hain, din main sapne dekhna ;) 

Who knows 2015 main sach hi hone ja rahe hon. I mean din wale sapne, jo raaton main kharaate ki neend sulaate hain :)

Ye Saali Zindgi. Till now I was using this "saali" in writing only but aaj to, uff! Need to delete this word from my written dictionary also. Ye Crazy Life! Better I think.

Life is so simple and straight 
Jhalli-si so beautiful and great 

That sometimes, I smile at life 

Sometimes, i get back that smile 

From this sweet, cute and ute life! 

 — feeling crazy.

 

  Jhalli-si=झल्ली-सी, ute= ऊत