Sunday, March 8, 2015

To Indian PM: Do Women Have The Right To Privacy And Dignity???

"Women's Day"!?!

Nothing to say except: 



Snooping, Stalking, Harassment and Bullying by IG, Karnal, Mr. Rajbir Deswal

To  (4 Aug, 2014 12:22 PM)

To (Aug 7 at 10:54 AM)

Dear Sir,

I am Vijay Dangi, Assistant Professor, MDU, Rohtak. This complaint is against Mr. Rajbir Deswal, IG, Karnal.
It was in the early months of 2012, when i started feeling uncomfortable about some posts on some FB wall. That FB wall was of then IG, CID, Mr. Rajbir Deswal. I added him in my friend list due to some good impression (Honest and blah blah) given about him by a colleague DPR, MDU, Rohtak. But in very short time that impression turned into depression. Day by day, Mr. Rajbir Deswal wrote FB posts about my day by day happenings or mishappenings. I was surprised that how that could happen. With time, i realized that some of his friends on FB, were also writing about me and that colleague. I confronted but in vain. I asked this colleague to confront but his reply was "ak to policia uspe jat kaun panga le"! After discussion with my well wishers, i stopped talking to this colleague and avoided him as far as i could. But those personal attacks kept on increasing on these people's FB walls. These people have been listening all my calls, checking mails, blogs, social site/s and then kind of dissecting them since early 2012. They are applying their own judgements and prejudices and writing in such a way (indirect), that people could understand well whom they are targeting. If that was not enough, these people not just wrote about my phone calls but family, friends, relatives, colleagues, my lifestyle, strengths and weaknesses. Mr. Rajbir Deswal has also been watching me, almost 24hrs. How, i do not know! They wrote like goons and did hahahha on my personal life, professional life, bank accounts, salary, shopping, dog, trips, students, classes, official meetings, eating habits, food, cooking, my backyard plants, many happenings/mishappenings in my home, fractions with boss/Director/VC. They did not spare me in my home, office, on road, market or any person in my life or surrounding. They wrote about each and every aspect, they could including my cloths, all type of online purchases including undergarments. Worst, when i stopped talking to this colleague, they tried to show to the public that i was someone third person in some old friend's married life! The truth, i met last, that guy in 2005 and talked to him on phone in 2010, before his marriage. When these people were writing all this bakwas in the form of public posts, i asked that guy, Fighter Pilot in IAF, on FB what was the problem in his life. And the answer was nothing at all!
Amidst all this drama, many posts of Mr. Rajbir Deswal were so offending and kind of talking about his own interest! These people wrote about my headaches, fever, cough, periods, body parts and much much more! Sir, I am no criminal, do not any case against me. I have even written publicly long back and told Mr. Rajbir Deswal to act legally if there was any offence on my part rather than conducting a Kagaroo Court in such a demeaning way. I wonder if people at such a responsible post could behave like this with a women then what we can expect from others? My humble request, please take appropriate action so that such people cannot behave same way with others.

My FB profile: Here
Mr. Rajbir Deswal FB: Here

People who think that i will leave this case easily.. Well, I WOULD NOT WITHOUT ANY KINDA ACTION.. TILL MY LAST BREATH! ...

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Some Expert View..

Since last few years, i am following and reading kinda religiously some blogs and some news papers (especially The Guardian and Washington Post), related to surveillance and security. I am also reading some high tech sites and googled about so many technologies related to this crime. Last year, i read some books also just to know more about this sick world of surveillance! Sick in the sense as i felt that rather than fighting terrorists or criminals, surveillance is doing much more damage to human world in so many ways. On top of that my own experience of this hell is there along with the lil-bit experimentation i did just to know things with a bit clarity. 
That experimentation was started when i made my new FB profile with the decision to fight back rather than leaving FB like a coward. And i must thank my friends for that who encouraged me directly or indirectly, not to bow down in front of so called tekedaars of this society. The people who feel, laws are meant to be broken to mend things, "the way they feel". The people who feel some people are out of these tekedaars too narrow and sick mind's orbits so need to be fixed. The people who themselves have no orbits! Neither some oath's orbit nor the respect for any uniform and even basic social boundaries including human's basic requirement of privacy and dignity. And such people will define others orbits? Really? The people who feel orbits are only for others and they are above anything; typical lecherous characters! The people who feel women are meant to be weak and surrender as per their do's and dont's and sick wishes. The people who feel culture is their baap ki jaagir. The people who feel the culture is stagnant and meant to stink. I found such saints doing the worst kinda crimes! 
While going through this i had distanced myself from my circle for this or that fear, for the sake of them. These lecherous characters started hitting not just my family and relatives but one by one even friends and friends of friends. I bounced back in that solitary environment and found major moral support in readings on security and surveillance. These readings were kinda eye opener and gave clarity about so many doubts of mine. I had asked questions also from some experts in this field, in the starting via letters and then publicly online. In most cases, i got indirect replies in the form of public posts. The direct and one of the best response was from Brush Schneier, a world renowned expert on security. His replies were nearby my own conclusion though still i am in search of answers of so many questions... 

Link: (here)

You can find Schneier Blog on the link: (here)

I found this blog balanced, giving a view on pros and cons of security and surveillance. No doubt, we need security and cannot avoid new adge technologies in today's cyberwar race but at the same time we need our basic human rights and dignity. Misuse of these technologies for so called officials petty egos and worthless righteousness is unacceptable. Only cowards can bow in front of such people, not the ones who can call a spade a spade and believe in fighting for their rights!!